Can I confide in my fellow 'strokies'?

Oct 24
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Can I confide in my fellow 'strokies'?

Posted by Corybaby28 on

So i have a g.f and live with her.

But I met this girl from Holland.

OMG she is amazing, I met her at my hotel, didn't even kiss her or anything, but we've been talking online, and I don't know

I feel like I'm totally falling for this chick in the Netherlands, her accent, she is so hot, she quirky and goofy. I don't know what to do. I think I'm going to go to Amsterdam and hang out with her. What should I do? I don't know what I want anymotr, cuz all I want is there girl even though I'm not supposed to. Shit I wish I was in holland right now

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dude, go for it! your obv not into your gf any more if u cant stop thinking bout this girl from holland. lifes too short... go to holland, if it doesnt work out well then at least you wont always wonder "what if...?". good luck!!

errr, do wat feels right. you only live once. dont hurt anybody, blab or confess. some people learn by doing, others by... :roll:

[quote="Itstheotherwayaround"]All things being equal, long distance relationships are a bitch. If you want a new girlfriend, find one at your local coffeehouse. If all things are [i]not [/i]equal, go for it, but if she ever visits you but insists you pay her airfare, think twice about it real long. I know girls might hate me for saying this, but the guys I've known who've paid the airfare for girls to visit them have been losers, and the girls have liked being spoiled more than they've liked the actual guys paying the airfare.[/quote]

What do you mean by "things being equal?

And I think I understand what you guys mean when you say 'coffeehouse' but i honestly never hear the expression, haha.

Yeah I don't know what's gotten into me, but I think this girl put spell on my. I mean her accent, and her free spirit just attracts me like amagine, but I know what you. I didn't mean "I'm not supposed to" ... I guess what I meant is that "i shouldn't", like it would be unwise to act on these initial instincts too much, when she lives across the world.

it's just kind of strange to have these feelings.. and I haven't anyone I can talk to about except you guys. I live with my gf even though I'm only 20. But I do it to help her financially...

I don't no I'm not even writing this shit with any sense of organization right now, cuz shit just keeps popping in my head.... I just keep getting these damn butterflies... I haven't felt butterflies like these since... I dunno prolly since I went thru puberty. It's just strange, but thanks for the feedback, I love my fellow strokies even though we rarely get along.

Break up with your girlfriend cause you're obviously not into her anymore.
Saying "even though I'm not supposed to!!!" is ridiculous. Who says? You can like whoever the hell you want, unless of course, I dunno, you only met once and they live in the netherlands?
That chick, get over it.
You're just bored, go to a coffeehouse.

All things being equal, long distance relationships are a bitch. If you want a new girlfriend, find one at your local coffeehouse. If all things are [i]not [/i]equal, go for it, but if she ever visits you but insists you pay her airfare, think twice about it real long. I know girls might hate me for saying this, but the guys I've known who've paid the airfare for girls to visit them have been losers, and the girls have liked being spoiled more than they've liked the actual guys paying the airfare.

Hmmm... go with the girl in Holland.